Hi, everyone…man, have we been slackers or what?  So sorry for not letting you guys know earlier what’s been going on here on this side of the world.  Thanks for praying for our Shorebreak (Spring Break) retreat…it really was good.  I think kids were really challenged to grow and think deeply about how they will walk this path of life.  There were people who made decisions to be a Christ follower and those who didn’t…I talked with one girl who sat and told me how she knew that God was tugging at her heart, but that the cost was just too high.  Losing her friends was too hard to envision, much less do.  I was thankful for her honesty, glad to tell her that God was not afraid of it, and asked only that she pray that God would continue to woo her to Himself.  She said she would.  

It was also fun to see and counsel some students who had been “ours” in Junior High for two years and were now hanging out in the big leagues…to watch their growth and see how they are changing was really encouraging to us.  Buddy was going like a MAD MAN the whole week…I don’t know how he did it…he was either helping with games, driving a big ole’ Air Force bus with LOTS of kids on it, doing interactive learning, leading a small group or making time for us as a family.  Every day he dragged himself out of bed to come spend the early morning with me and Jack and Adrianne.  (Cuz you just know they were up at 5:30 every morning!)  It was an anchor for our family…a peaceful shower for me, while he watched the kids.  A peaceful shower is not something one relates with a retreat, but we had one in our room, so that was a true blessing.  Adrianne and Jack were troopers…they had such a great time with a couple girls who came to babysit when we needed them to.  These girls have apparently decided that our children are of royal descent, and thus, must be treated with the utmost of doting and patience while their every need was anticipated and attended to.  (A far cry from the reality of the Rathmell home, I must say)  Adrianne said she wanted to live there.  Not surprising. J

Upon returning, we were met with some horrible news that a good friend of ours (from college) who is in her 20’s has cancer.  She and her husband have a little boy not much older than Jack.  Her name is Jennifer, and today, April 24th, she is having surgery on both her stomach and ovaries to see the extent of the cancer, as well as trying to get rid of as much as possible.  Our hearts break for them, and yet we have seen and heard of God’s sustaining power and peace in their lives.  Would you please pray today for them?  We want God to touch her body and heal her…please, please pray.  One night when we were praying with Adrianne before bed and prayed again for Jennifer’s “tummy”, she looked quizzically at me and said, “Mommy, we’ve already prayed for her tummy”…in her mind, it was a done deal…God would hear and answer…as I write this, tears fall filled with sadness, mixed strangely with hope and faith.

That situation has really provided for some contemplative times for me and us as a family.  These kind of things make us want to live more holy, righteous lives so that when God calls us home, we will be greeted with arms of pride…the paradox of that, is that no matter what we do, God delights in us solely because we are His own, and not because we do anything so grand as to deserve His love.  May our devotion be pleasing to Him.

Thanks for all you do…give money, pray, encourage and entrust us to the Lord…we are privileged to be Your hands doing God’s work….let us know how you are.

With much love, always…

Jen for all of us.